I spent the first 18 years of my life not understanding what it was about coffee that everyone seemed to love. Not that I was tea drinker, I didn’t like that either, or even hot chocolate much. I would go to someone’s house and be asked what I wanted to drink and I’d ask for water. Would you like a coffee? what about a tea? Squash? No, water is fine, thanks. They looked uncomfortable, as if they had failed to provide a nice drink for me, but really, I was fine with water. Although I was happy with water, my hosts seemed uncomfortable with it, they kept trying to offer me drinks I didn’t want. And so, on becoming an adult, I decided maybe it was time to bring myself to the point where I would be able to drink a coffee, just to be polite and fit in in certain social situation. I didn’t think I’d like it, but I thought if I made myself drink a small cup each day I’d be able to accept a coffee on those occasions when hot drink drinking was required. I started with just half a teaspoon of instant coffee, lots of sugar and a dash of water. Within a week I was cutting down the sugar, soon I was increasing the coffee, and before long I was topping up the whole mug. Something I’d thought I didn’t like for all those years became an addiction in about a week. At first it was just instant coffee, but over the next few years, living in Germany for a year and later Poland for two years, I turned to proper coffee beans and ground coffee only. I would turn up my nose at instant, it just didn’t give me that kick I needed any more. Nowadays I do drink instant at work (as there is no other choice) but I would never buy it or keep it in the flat at home. Any coffee drunk at home is made with love, care and real coffee beans.
In Poland, the coffee was usually served Turkish style and I loved it. It was so strong it made me shake when I first arrived, especially if I dared to have 2 cups. Every so often I still enjoy coffee this way. To give it more of a Turkish flavour, I decided to try it with cardamom in, and this is what I did:

Ingredients
1 cup of water
1 tbsp coffee, finely ground
1 cardamom pod, crushed a little so seeds are exposed
How to make Cardamom Coffee
1. Boil the kettle. Pour the water into a mug then tip it into a saucepan. Bring back to the boil.
2.When it boils take it off the heat. Add the coffee and cardamom pod. Return to the heat. It will begin to boil and foam quite quickly.
3. Take it off the heat. Then return it to the heat until it foams again.
3. Repeat this process again once or even twice.
4. Leave the pan to rest for a minute or two so all the grinds sink to the bottom.
5. Pour into the cup and serve.
I don’t like sweet coffee so I didn’t add any sugar but if you like it to be sweet you can add some sugar to the water at the beginning